2.0 Carat Emerald Cut with 1.5 Carat Pear
2.0 Carat Emerald Cut with 1.5 Carat Pear * The Lyric Toi et Moi | Lisa Robin
2.0 Carat Emerald Cut with 1.5 Carat Pear
2.0 Carat Emerald Cut with 1.5 Carat Pear * The Lyric Toi et Moi | Lisa Robin
2.0 Carat Emerald Cut with 1.5 Carat Pear
2.0 Carat Emerald Cut with 1.5 Carat Pear * The Lyric Toi et Moi | Lisa Robin
2.0 Carat Emerald Cut with 1.5 Carat Pear
2.0 Carat Emerald Cut with 1.5 Carat Pear * The Lyric Toi et Moi | Lisa Robin
2.0 Carat Emerald Cut with 1.5 Carat Pear
2.0 Carat Emerald Cut with 1.5 Carat Pear * The Lyric Toi et Moi | Lisa Robin
2.0 Carat Emerald Cut with 1.5 Carat Pear
2.0 Carat Emerald Cut with 1.5 Carat Pear * The Lyric Toi et Moi | Lisa Robin
2.0 Carat Emerald Cut with 1.5 Carat Pear
2.0 Carat Emerald Cut with 1.5 Carat Pear * The Lyric Toi et Moi | Lisa Robin
2.0 Carat Emerald Cut with 1.5 Carat Pear
2.0 Carat Emerald Cut with 1.5 Carat Pear * The Lyric Toi et Moi | Lisa Robin
2.0 Carat Emerald Cut with 1.5 Carat Pear
2.0 Carat Emerald Cut with 1.5 Carat Pear * The Lyric Toi et Moi | Lisa Robin
2.0 Carat Emerald Cut with 1.5 Carat Pear
2.0 Carat Emerald Cut with 1.5 Carat Pear * The Lyric Toi et Moi | Lisa Robin
2.0 Carat Emerald Cut with 1.5 Carat Pear
2.0 Carat Emerald Cut with 1.5 Carat Pear * The Lyric Toi et Moi | Lisa Robin
2.0 Carat Emerald Cut with 1.5 Carat Pear
2.0 Carat Emerald Cut with 1.5 Carat Pear * The Lyric Toi et Moi | Lisa Robin
2.0 Carat Emerald Cut with 1.5 Carat Pear
2.0 Carat Emerald Cut with 1.5 Carat Pear * The Lyric Toi et Moi | Lisa Robin
2.0 Carat Emerald Cut with 1.5 Carat Pear * The Lyric Toi et Moi | Lisa Robin
2.0 Carat Emerald Cut with 1.5 Carat Pear * The Lyric Toi et Moi | Lisa Robin
2.0 Carat Emerald Cut with 1.5 Carat Pear * The Lyric Toi et Moi | Lisa Robin
2.0 Carat Emerald Cut with 1.5 Carat Pear * The Lyric Toi et Moi | Lisa Robin
2.0 Carat Emerald Cut with 1.5 Carat Pear * The Lyric Toi et Moi | Lisa Robin
2.0 Carat Emerald Cut with 1.5 Carat Pear * The Lyric Toi et Moi | Lisa Robin
2.0 Carat Emerald Cut with 1.5 Carat Pear * The Lyric Toi et Moi | Lisa Robin
2.0 Carat Emerald Cut with 1.5 Carat Pear * The Lyric Toi et Moi | Lisa Robin
2.0 Carat Emerald Cut with 1.5 Carat Pear * The Lyric Toi et Moi | Lisa Robin
2.0 Carat Emerald Cut with 1.5 Carat Pear * The Lyric Toi et Moi | Lisa Robin
2.0 Carat Emerald Cut with 1.5 Carat Pear * The Lyric Toi et Moi | Lisa Robin
2.0 Carat Emerald Cut with 1.5 Carat Pear * The Lyric Toi et Moi | Lisa Robin
2.0 Carat Emerald Cut with 1.5 Carat Pear * The Lyric Toi et Moi | Lisa Robin
Gender Neutral Engagement Rings and Wedding Bands

The Lyric Diamond Toi et Moi Engagement Ring

The Lyric is a toi et moi engagement ring — you and me, two diamonds on one band. A two stone engagement ring holding an emerald cut and a pear side by side, each diamond distinct, creating between them something neither could create alone.
$ 5,995.00
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The Lyric toi et moi engagement ring sets two lab created diamonds together on a single band — an emerald cut of approximately 2.0 carat beside a pear of approximately 1.5 carat, each one visible and individual. As a two stone engagement ring, the Lyric reads as a relationship rather than a single focal point. Neither diamond overshadows the other; the tension between their different forms is what gives this two diamond engagement ring its meaning. Three round and one oval accent diamond frame the pair, bringing the ring to approximately 4.0 carat in total.

Metal Options 14K Yellow Gold, 14K White Gold, 14K Rose Gold, or Platinum. Sustainably sourced.
Center Diamonds Emerald cut approximately 2.0 carat with pear approximately 1.5 carat — 3.5 carat together
Diamond Quality Lab created VVS2+, Color F
Accent Diamonds Three round and one oval, 0.5 carat total
Total Carat Weight Approximately 4.0 carat
Style Toi et moi engagement ring
Setting Claw prongs
Band 1.8mm
Setting Height Low
Band Profile Domed
Crafting Time Approximately 3-4 weeks

The Lyric is $5,995 complete as shown in 14K gold, or $6,395 in platinum. The setting alone starts at $2,495 — choose your own two centers, including colored diamonds or colored gemstones, during a design appointment.

What does 'toi et moi' mean and where does this engagement ring style come from?

Toi et moi is French for "you and me." The style sets two diamonds side by side on one band, each representing one person in the relationship. It dates to the 18th century and is famously associated with Napoleon's proposal to Josephine; it has stayed a meaningful choice for couples who want the ring to represent two people rather than one center.

Why does the Lyric pair an emerald cut with a pear brilliant?

The emerald cut and the pear have distinct characters — the emerald is step-cut, with long, calm flashes, while the pear is a brilliant-faceted teardrop that sparkles and tapers to a point. Pairing two different shapes lets each stay individual and visible, which suits the toi et moi idea of two people side by side. Three round and one oval accent diamond complete the setting. Their carat weights are approximate — around 2.0 for the emerald and 1.5 for the pear — because the two are selected on how they balance each other in the design rather than to hit a specific weight. Proportion is what makes a toi et moi work; the numbers follow from it.

Can the Lyric be made with different diamond shape combinations?

Yes. The emerald-and-pear pairing shown here is the signature look, complete at $5,995 in 14K gold. The setting alone starts at $2,495, and from there you choose your own two centers — other diamond shapes, or colored diamonds and colored gemstones if you want the pairing to carry color as well as shape. Final price depends on what you select, and we work through the pairing together during a design appointment.

Our guided approach to customizing each ring with intention and clarity.

Every Lisa Robin ring is made to order, which means your design can be thoughtfully refined — even when ordering online. Whether you're adjusting a detail or evolving the design, we guide you through each decision to ensure the final piece feels cohesive and entirely yours.

Design Refinements can be explored after your initial order, with any pricing adjustments clearly outlined and approved before crafting begins.

Available refinement options include:

  • Adjusting the width or taper of the band
  • Modifying or adding side diamonds for additional detail or presence
  • Changing the prong style (claw, round, double prong, etc.)
  • Adjusting the number of prongs for both aesthetic and structure
  • Refining the basket design for a different profile or overall look
  • Selecting your preferred metal type and color
  • Adapting the design to better coordinate with a wedding ring
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The Lyric Diamond Toi et Moi Engagement Ring

Most engagement rings tell the story of one diamond. A toi et moi tells the story of two.

The Lyric is a toi et moi engagement ring — the historical format that places two diamonds side by side on a single band, each one representing one person in a relationship. Napoleon gave Josephine a two-diamond ring in 1796; the form has carried that “you and me” meaning continuously since. As a two stone engagement ring with an emerald cut paired with a pear, the Lyric makes the symbolism visible: two diamonds, two characters, neither overshadowing the other. As a toi et moi diamond ring with deliberate diamond pairing, the design reads as a relationship made visible — two distinct shapes that together create something neither could alone.

The carat weights are approximate for a reason. The emerald and the pear are chosen for how they balance each other in the design rather than to reach a number on a certificate — the emerald reads around 2.0 carat, the pear around 1.5. What matters is how the two sit together, which is a question of proportion, not weight.

Wear it as a ring that represents both of you, equally. The Lyric joins a Lisa Robin tradition of toi et moi and two stone engagement rings designed for couples whose ring should tell the story of two people.

Design Process

The Lisa Robin Design Experience

A thoughtful process designed to bring clarity and confidence to the creation of your ring.

Online Ordering

Order your engagement ring through a clearly guided online experience, supported by in-depth educational resources throughout the website. If you’d like to personalize the setting, simply place your order—we’ll follow up to refine the details and align everything with your preferences.

Private Design Appointments

For a more collaborative experience, work with us one-on-one, either in person or virtually. We’ll guide you through each decision in real time, shaping your engagement ring with clarity and intention.

This ring is offered complete. The center is already selected and included in the price, so there's nothing further for you to source or choose.

Where the center is a one-of-a-kind gemstone, we'll send you an image of the actual gemstone before it's set — so you see the exact piece going into your ring rather than a representative photograph.

Before your ring is hand-crafted, you’ll review detailed renderings created using your diamond’s dimensions. Multiple views allow proportions and design details to be carefully reviewed, and you’ll approve the design before crafting begins. If a wedding ring is selected on the same order, renderings will also show the rings individually and together so you can see how they pair.

Once your design is approved, your ring is hand-crafted specifically for you and typically completed in about three weeks.

What our customers say

I loved working with Lisa Robin! It was so easy to create exactly what I wanted. With some minor changes to Lisa's gorgeous styles, I had the perfect wedding ring to coordinate with my Lisa Robin Engagement Ring. Can’t wait to add another ring to my stack.

Abby and Zane
Blountville, Tennessee

Our experience with Lisa Robin was delightful. We found our Lisa Robin engagement ring Instagram and then picked out and bought our wedding rings online. Every question we had was answered quickly. Lisa made us feel special and guided us in the right direction. When we got our rings, they were just what we wanted, expressing our style and love perfectly. We are so happy with how everything turned out.

Mary Katherine and Adam
Columbus, Ohio

Complete the style

The Lyric toi et moi styled with the Twilight and Finley Diamond bands

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Gender Neutral Engagement Rings and Wedding Bands — Frequently Asked Questions

Gender neutral rings are designed without the visual markers that traditionally distinguish 'men's' from 'women's' rings — meaning they don't lean toward extremely substantial widths (traditional masculine), extremely refined narrow widths (traditional feminine), heavy surface texture, floral motifs, or other visual elements that carry strong gender associations. Instead, gender neutral designs use middle-range widths (typically 3-5mm), balanced proportions, clean construction, restrained diamond placement, and design vocabulary that reads appropriately on any hand. Many rings designed without specific gender intent end up working as gender neutral by default; this collection curates those designs into a single browsable group.
Yes — this is one of the primary use cases for the gender neutral collection. Both partners can choose rings from the same design family with width or material variations adapting each ring to the wearer's hand. Common approaches: same design at different widths (4mm and 6mm Tanner, for example), same width in different metals (yellow gold and white gold), same design at identical specifications (when hand sizes are similar), or coordinated-but-distinct designs (each partner chooses a different ring that shares aesthetic vocabulary). The Tanner family is particularly suited for matched couples' bands because it offers five widths in the same design language.
No. Engagement rings and wedding bands are personal choices — some couples choose both, some choose only wedding bands, some choose only engagement rings, and configurations vary. There's no universal expectation that any particular configuration is correct. For same-gender couples or any couple preferring a streamlined approach, both partners wearing wedding bands only (without engagement rings) is a valid choice. For couples wanting more ring presence, both partners can wear engagement ring + wedding band. The configuration choice should serve the couple's preferences, not external expectations.
Yes — the design vocabulary in this collection is a starting point, not a constraint. Adjustments toward more traditionally masculine (wider band, more substantial profile, surface texture) or more traditionally feminine (narrower band, more refined proportions, more prominent diamond detail) can be made during custom design. Some couples want their rings to land at the gender neutral midpoint; others want their rings to lean slightly in one direction while remaining outside the traditional 'his and hers' binary. We discuss preferences during the design conversation. The flexibility is the point: the rings should reflect each wearer's individual identity rather than fitting predefined categories.
That's a valid choice. Couples don't need to wear matching or even coordinated rings — many couples choose rings that reflect each partner's individual style preferences. One partner might want a substantial textured wedding band while the other prefers a refined diamond eternity ring. The relationship doesn't require visual symmetry between the rings. For couples wanting some visual connection between distinctly different rings, options include shared metal (both rings in yellow gold, for example), shared engraving (matching dates or phrases inside both rings), or shared diamond origin (both rings using lab grown diamonds). We discuss approaches during the design conversation.
Yes. A gender neutral wedding band can be paired with any engagement ring, including engagement rings that lean more traditionally feminine or masculine. The pairing decisions involve standard considerations: matching diamond cut vocabulary, metal coordination, width proportion, and design language coherence. A gender neutral wedding band paired with a more characterful engagement ring creates a deliberate vocabulary mix — the engagement ring brings the design statement, the wedding band brings refined support. Many couples find this approach works well because the engagement ring carries the visual focal weight and the wedding band supports without competing.
Rings in this collection are made-to-order in approximately 2-4 weeks from when your order is placed. Wedding bands typically finish in 2-3 weeks. Engagement rings with center stones and substantial design typically take 3-4 weeks. Custom designs (where Lisa designs something specific to your vision) take 3-4 weeks from design approval. Interior engraving adds approximately 1 week to any timeline. For wedding date deadlines, confirm timeline during the order conversation.
Yes. All diamonds in this collection can be specified as lab grown or natural. Lab grown diamonds are physically and optically identical to natural diamonds — same hardness, same brilliance, same chemical and crystal structure — but cost approximately 40-60% less for the same carat weight, color, and clarity. Most accent diamonds in wedding bands today are lab grown; the visual difference is undetectable. Lab grown diamonds are particularly aligned with values around responsible sourcing for couples who prioritize that consideration. We discuss diamond origin during the design conversation.
Pricing depends on the specific design, metal choice, diamond specifications, and any customization. Plain Tanner gold wedding bands start around $700-$2,400 depending on width and karat. Diamond wedding bands range $1,200-$8,000+ depending on diamond count, carat weight, and design complexity. Engagement rings in this collection start around $2,500-$3,500 for solitaire designs and range to $15,000+ for more substantial designs with larger center stones. Custom designs vary based on specifications. Lab grown diamonds reduce cost approximately 40-60% compared to natural. Specific pricing is confirmed during the design conversation.
Yes. Design appointments are open to anyone planning engagement rings, wedding bands, or other significant jewelry. The appointment is a conversation about your relationship, your aesthetic preferences, your timeline, and your budget. Whether you're a same-gender couple choosing matched wedding bands, a nonbinary individual designing a single ring for yourself, an engaged couple of any configuration, or anyone wanting to discuss ring design — the appointment serves your specific situation rather than fitting you into predetermined categories. Appointments are available via Zoom, phone, or in person at the Dayton studio. The first appointment is complimentary.
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